AHHH YES!! I'VE GIVEN MY BLOG POSTS A TITLE!! ~2nd and one day'th anniversary of blogRAWRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!! yesterday was my blog' birthday and i forgot!! HAPPY (belated) 2ND BIRTHDAY, BLOG!!!! lol.
so, on the 2nd and one day'th anniversary of my blog, i shall post some totally random stuff. today i will be blogging about.. infatuation!! lolol.
what is infatuation? often described as 'liking' somebody, 'an object of extravagant short-lived passion' (dictionary.com) or a 'crush', the teenage years is where it happens the most i guess, now no one can admit to not having experienced it b4, when you're just learning how to interact with the opposite gender after primary sch. and being in an all boys/girls sch for 4 years doesnt help much lol.
well heres my theory of why people get infatuated, and why it doesnt work out most of the time. (lol i cant believe i'm blogging this type of stuff.. well we need to do something new everyday right? haha)
theory 1: because of another person's looks or appearance only, which i think is real shallow. theory 2: because you have an admiration for someone else's qualities, or maybe really look up to a person.
ok why infatuation doesnt work out. based on theory 1, if you get infatuated with someone purely because they look good only, thats real shallow. haha. theory 2, well for you to look up to or have an admiration for somebody, that person has to be somewhat 'better' than you. unfortunately, that better person may not think very highly of you.
anyway, infatuation is just a fleeting emotion.. which we shouldn't let get in the way of true friendships. and, dun trust everything i say, cos love and relationships is not something that can be put into formulas and equations.
yeap in conclusion, this is a verse i think of when i feel really confused about these matters: Romans 8: 5 - 6: "Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace;"
ok then. tts all for the 2nd and one day'th anniversary of my blog. cya!!